The Addiction Recovery Program is not just for people who are struggling and suffering with an active addiction. Really, one could argue that everybody has an addiction of some kind, but let's not worry about that right now. There is something for everyone in this program. They even have a separate website with resources for spouses and family members.
If you have a loved one who is struggling with a harmful addiction, and you don't know what else to do to try to change him or her, try looking at yourself and find out what you can change about yourself.
I recently finished a book called "The Anatomy of Peace" by The Arbinger Institute that illustrates how we can help resolve problems of other people by looking at ourselves and adjusting our efforts to find ways to overcome the struggles that we see.
I just wanted to say one more thing about the friends and family members of those suffering from addiction before I dive into the individual steps one at a time.
If you think the LDS 12-Step Addiction Recovery Program may help you or someone you know, I encourage you to find a meeting near you, or visit the website for phone-in meeting details.
I know that Jesus lives and loves us. He wants us to be happy, and he wants us to find peace. He has provided the way for us to return to live with our Heavenly Father and have eternal happiness. If there is anything that is preventing you from feeling like you are worthy to obtain that happiness, start at the beginning. Read the scriptures. Listen to the prophets. Find healthy friendships. Find God.